1- Buying too many gifts
Whenever you give a woman gifts you’re sending a message that you need to buy her affection because you don’t think you’re good enough as a person. Some women will mistake your good intentions as a weak attempt at manipulation. Avoid this situation.
Save the romantic gifts for the married life. If she didn’t get you anything, why should you spend your money on her?
2- Convincing a girl to like you
I’m a really nice and romantic guy. I’m a great lover and I can guarantee you that you will always be satisfied. I respect women and you will never have to worry about me cheating on you.
Yeah, right. She’ll never have to worry about you cheating on her because she won’t care if you do. Here’s a fact: You will never convince a woman to be attracted to you through logic and reasoning. A woman is wired to react to emotions; therefore, it’s how you act and make her feel that will determine her interest in you.
3- Revealing your cards too soon
I like you a lot. I really, really like hanging out with you. You make me feel so special. I think I’m falling for you. I’m so attracted to you.
Of course you are, that’s why you’re still dating or spending time with her. Your presence around her alone should be enough to communicate this message. You don’t have to tell her this. She should figure it out on her own. If she still hasn’t, then let her wonder if you do — it’s part of what will keep her attracted to you and hold her attention.
4- Having an inferiority complex
I’d like to approach her but I don’t think I’m her type. Besides, she looks like she’s interested in guys with a lot of cash.
Yes, it’s a known fact that having good looks and a fat wallet will definitely help turn a woman’s eye in your direction. But that’s half the battle. You still need to have a charming personality to take it past the introduction stage.
Such men tend to let their money or good looks do the talking and forget that a brain is actually more conducive to interesting conversations. Before they know it, they’re talking to themselves in front of the mirror. Sometimes having an original approach and your own unique style will get you a lot further than you think.
5- Making false assumptions
A woman that is beautiful has to be taken. That, or she’s high-maintenance.
Listen to this: Assumptions are the mother of all screw-ups.
Every time you make an assumption about a woman and it prevents you from approaching her, it amounts to another wasted opportunity to hook up with a beautiful woman. Take a chance, and follow the Drake’s motto: YOLO: You Only Live Once.
Be a man an make that move…
6- Waiting for approval or permission
Can I call u?can i talk to u? Can i kiss u?
Of course you can, just do it, don’t ask. Its pathetic when u see a lot of guys asking for permission from girls to do common things.
7- Being too nice a guy
Oh, I’m busy this week. How about some other time? No forget it, I’ll cancel my plans for you. I’ll do your assignment for u. Enjoy your date night with your friends whiles i spend 3hrs doing your work.smh.
Unless yo plan on marrying her. Stop being so accommodating; it makes your value decrease and women aren’t attracted to men they can walk all over.
Of course, I’m not suggesting that you stop being a nice guy and behave like a jerk (although it can help sometimes). All it means is that you’re looking out for No. 1 — yourself — and there is nothing wrong with that. If she can’t work her plans around your schedule, then too bad for her — she’ll just have to wait. By following this philosophy, you will become more valuable in her eyes.
8- Making love 24/7
I want to hold you and make slow, passionate love all night long.
Yes, making love is romantic and original but variety is what women really want.
Most women want a man who can give it to them gently one minute and fast and hard the next — especially when the mood is right or with those women who are looking for an unforgettable one-night stand. Sometimes, cuddling is the last thing on a bad girl’s mind.
9- Blaming others and refusing to change
Ah, she’s just difficult!
Yes, she might be difficult, but you may be the problem if you find yourself calling every woman you date one. If you see a recurring pattern regarding the way women dump or avoid you, then chances are that you’re doing something wrong.
The solution is to accept that you’re making mistakes and try to rectify them. And, of course, that’s why you’re reading this article.
learn from your mistakes