A lot of women worry about men only wanting one thing when they go on a date.
Here I want to break down a couple of facts about how men think when it comes to sex. Once you know where men are coming from, the whole dating game becomes much easier.
Fact no. 1 – If he’s on a date, he wants to have sex with you
For women the case is often different. Often a woman will go on a date with a man without having at all decided whether or not she will sleep with him.
But trust me, if a man asks you on a date you can rest assured he has 100% definitely thought about sleeping with you.
Whether he sees you as more than that of course all will depend on how you play it.
Fact no. 2 – You can judge his intentions by how he reacts to being denied sex
Though there aren’t any really hard rules about when you should sleep with a guy, I would generally advise refraining from having sex on the first date.
The reason is actually because denying him sex will give you a good indication of what his intentions are and how he sees you.
If he gets upset and stroppy with you, this should send alarm bells ringing.
Think about it: Why might a guy get angry when you tell him you want to wait another couple of dates before jumping into bed?
The answer is simple: it’s because he doesn’t plan on sticking around for very long!
So the rule is, never judge a man for just wanting to have sex with you. That’s human, and if he’s on a date with you it’s because he felt some initial sexual attraction.
What you judge him for is how he reacts if you tell him the first date is a bit too soon for you.
Fact no. 3 – But – Sex isn’t your power as a woman!
All this being said, you should never get wrapped up in the idea of using sex as your power with men.
Because once you see sex as the only card you can play, he’ll notice that and then guess what? Once he’s had sex with you he’ll feel like there’s nothing else to you.
This is why some men run away or lose interest after women give them sex. Because the woman made the whole focus of their dating a game of when they were going to have sex.
When it comes to understanding men, it’s similar to what’s called Cat-string theory: If you dangle a string above a cat it will go crazy to get it, but once you drop the string and let the cat have it, it won’t be bothered anymore.
This is the exact same thing with men and sex.
If you use sex as your bait, don’t be surprised if that’s all he wants you for!