The male scrotum comes in so many different shapes and sizes — even on the same guy! Each duo has its own sensitivity preference and pain threshold, so the trick for us ladies is to learn how to handle them without hurting them.
Approach is everything. Men (should) know not to “drill for oil” when they first go down on a girl. Similarly, when women initially grab hold of the boys, we shouldn’t yank, pull or squeeze them hard.
When your guy requests that you suck his boys in the course of having sex, you should know that your guy’s request is far from unusual. Sucking on his testicles can make for an incredibly sensational experience — and you’ll double his pleasure if you simultaneously fondle his shaft. Next time you’re giving him south-of-the-border oral action, take a sexy bypass and move your mouth from his main member to the rest of his package. Swirl the tip of your tongue around his scrotum — the loose sac of skin that surrounds the testicles. Then, lick his balls with long, sweeping strokes as if you were savoring a delicious ice cream cone. Mix it up and intermittently purse your lips and suck softly on the skin or take each testicle all the way into your mouth. One overlooked hot spot you shouldn’t ignore: his raphe (the vertical line in the middle of his scrotal sac). You’ll make his toes curl if you feverishly flick it with your tongue.
Once you’ve worked him into frenzy, switch back to sensuously licking his penis as you gently manhandle his balls. He may like it a bit rough; some guys like it a little rough, but this can be a supersensitive area, so find out how hard he wants to be touched before applying more muscle. One tactical trick that’s sure to send him reeling: Use your finger to gently rub his perineum (the nerve-packed patch of skin that is between his scrotum and his anus), and you’re likely to launch him into orgasmic orbit
There’s a lot of hype around playing with the balls and you should certainly must know. If you want to give him pleasure from that spot, remember that the balls are not the point where you should focus on but rather the scrotum surrounding the balls. Anything you can do to stimulate the scrotum will feel amazing and that includes gently–very gently–playing with the things inside the scrotum. But those two big guys are extremely sensitive and if you’re not careful it will suddenly feel like you’ve kicked your man in the nuts. Even if it is with your tongue. Better idea: focus on the scrotum–you can rub it, scratch it gently with your fingernails, lick it, bite it. If he likes it rough, you can twist it with your fingers, pinch it, and really start to dig in. Just please, for all of us, stay away from the nuts inside