A person always does only two things: first is to desire happiness and the second is to fear pain. All his actions are based on these two things. We are always looking for everlasting happiness. For the fulfillment of his desire, he is always in search of someone. He wants to dedicate his life to the object that give him the fullest pleasure. His eyes are always engaged in the discovery of a unique beauty.
His ears are always anxious to hear sweet sounds. To describe an object , his tongue is always ready. His heart always beats to meet someone. Our hearts do not easily express our deepest emotions. The reason is the fear of being hurt. To establish deeper relationships, our intelligence needs to know detail of the things that come before it. Our intelligence accepts someone according to its idea of right and wrong. But the velocity of strong feelings makes it accept some things easily.
It even sometimes violates our knowledge of right and wrong. There may be some happiness in all this, but it is always mixed with pain . The philosophical conclusion is that ”Without being perfect, you can not attract the perfect.” According to this conclusion, every thing has drawbacks except God. Any thing that is dependent on a finite entity is also finite. Only God is eternal. So, our relation with God is eternal too.